User blog comment:Funnyman12/Brawl in the family the important message that was missed./@comment-26302585-20171222181631/@comment-26302585-20171223030616

Ask yourself this. If you were told that you weren't allowed to use the bathroom (even though you needed to) or get something to eat from the kitchen (even though you were hungry) because 2 people had a silly argument, would you have just listened to them. If so, good for you, but honestly, I'd kindly ask them to let me borrow the rooms for just a couple or so minutes, and if it didn't work, try to talk some sense into them (and I would not blurt out secrets like Lincoln did). I'd say, "Look, I get that you're mad at the person you're arguing with, but I really need to use the bathroom/get something to eat because I'm hungry. So can I please borrow it/come in here for just a couple minutes? I promise it won't take that long. Is it too much to ask? Is it? After I'm done, you can cool off in here again, and I'll leave you alone. Okay?"

Now that I think about it, why couldn't they just let anyone use the bathroom or go into the kitchen for a few seconds or a couple mintues. Did they really need those placesto themselves? I mean, letting a person get something to eat from the kitchen or using the bathroom is not a lot to ask of, it really isn't. Oh, and I just remembered, there are other places they could've cooled off. They have a back yard, a basement, an attic, and garage, yet they chose the bathroom and kitchen. Again, I don't think anyone should have to give up their rights to eat or use the bathroom just because of a petty argument between two people.