User blog comment:Thomperfan/What's the matter with Lincoln's sisters?/@comment-31353166-20170423184403/@comment-24200891-20170423191531

"You hurt people you love more" - that means you give not only physical pain but also emotional to the victim because then feels betrayed. Treason by loved one is very nasty experience. Being attacked by enemy is obvious, simple and predictible but being attacked by loved one is a different story. It wounds not just body but also mind and heart as treason can be traumatic.